Arik Diamant: Meet Svetlana

More than 50,000 Israeli men will celebrate International Women's Day tonight with a visit to a brothel.

Sounds outrageous? According to statistics provided by Amnesty International, there are between 5,000 – 10,000 victims of the sex trade in Israel. These women are forced to service at least 10 customers a day.

The johns of Israel's sex industry, you'll be shocked to learn, are not deviants or "freaks." They have no 24-hours-a-day bulges in their trousers, or lascivious glances that say, "yeah, yeah, it's me."

They are not just workers, foreigners or tourists. The clients for Israel's brothels and escort salons come from all walks of life, and most of us know at least a few. Army buddies, the mechanic, the dentist. Ordinary people. Readers of Ynetnews. Maybe you?

Don't be surprised. You're not guilty, you haven't done anything wrong. So what if once-in-a-while you get yourself a call girl? Everyone does it. You're not a criminal. You pay good money and receive a service.

And it's not that you beat her or do anything disgusting to her. Compared to other johns, you are pretty polite and well-mannered. At the end of the day, you're a man. You've come to fulfill your needs.

And if this is what she's chosen to do with her life – well, she's a big girl. She doesn't like the work? Let her go an clean houses. Let her go find someone who'll pay her 200 shekels for 10 minutes work.

But perhaps in honor of International Women's Day, let me introduce the woman you'll have such a good time with tonight. Here's 10 things you never knew about her.

1. Her name is Svetlana. Like most whores, she's from Eastern Europe. She's 22-years-old.

2. Misha, Svetlana's boss, bought her for 5,000 dollars from an Egyptian Mafioso who smuggled her across the border tied to a camel after he and his friends "checked her out" to see if she was worth the effort. Misha will bring 10-20 johns to Svetlana every day – NIS 200 shekels a piece, bringing in NIS 10,000 a month from her. He pays NIS 5,000 a month to some baboon to stand guard and make sure she doesn't run away. Another NIS 2,000 for the apartment, and that's about all his expenses. Misha's a visionary businessman; apart from Svetlana, he's got a few more girls in apartments around the country.

3. Svetlana won't see much of the money you pay. Misha will give her NIS 20-50 for each trick she turns. Usually, she uses this for drugs and cigarettes.

4. Svetlana is heavily into drugs. I'm sorry to tell you this, pal, but none of her performance came naturally. So what, she does ecstasy, a bit of cocaine, and anything else. Misha will worry about selling her.

5. She was sexually abused as a child. Like most prostitutes, she learned the profession at home, at an age when most girls were in school. Sorry to disappoint you again, buddy, but at no stage has she ever chosen to be a hooker.

6. She's got a little girl back in the Ukraine. If Svetlana makes problems and the customers aren't happy – Misha will make sure she, too, gets 10 customers a day.

7. If, by some miracle, Svetlana ever finds the strength to run away from her pimp, she'll be deported, back where she came from, and where his friends will "deal" with her. The only way she can be safe, and even then only for a few months, is to testify against Misha, but she's afraid he'll kill her if she does.

8. Svetlana speaks a little Hebrew, knows there are Jews and Arabs here, has heard of Tel Aviv and Haifa and Eilat. She's been here two years, but she's got no friends. She's got no cell phone, and even if she had, she's got no one to call.

9. All Svetlana owns are a couple of suitcases of clothes, NIS 500 and a carton of Marlboros.

10. Svetlana is very disciplined. She's done what she's been told for years. She's a good worker. Nothing makes her happy or sad. She's got no hopes and no expectations from life. She just wants to stop.

So, there you've got it. That's Svetlana. She's the service provider, you're the customer. The sex between you is completely professional, and there's no unwanted strings attached. Tonight, when other women get flowers or playful text messages, she'll have you, and another dozen just like you. Happy women's day, Svetlana.

Arik Diamant is a member of Amnesty International's fight against women trafficking

Source: http://www.ynetnews.com/articles/0,7340,L-3225396,00.html
(03.08.06, 13:59)

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Submitted by PhilipGiddings on Mon, 2006-07-03 16:59.

This is my direct reply to the article, which I submitted to the ynet web site. It awaits moderation and approval. What's the betting the moderators won't publish it, thereby proving my point about the creeping social acceptability of male persecution?

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Can you produce any credible evidence, i.e. from an authoritative study which applies scientific method, to support two implicit assumptions you are making, that

(1) all or even most of the sex workers (prostitutes) who work in brothels in Israel (or anywhere else for that matter) work under the conditions of slavery that you describe?

(2) all or even most female sex workers were sexually abused as children?

Until you can, your assertions amount to lies and smears against men which, if targeted specifically against Jews or blacks, would be universally condemned as racist bigotry. Alarm bells would ring because the history of white imperialism, black slavery and Nazi Germany is behind us. But the history of feminist fascism and persecution is too close and recent, and the worst is probably still in front of us; that's why we have yet to recognise it creeping up, and probably won't do so until it's too late (if it isn't too late already). Exactly as it happened in Nazi Germany.

Today, even human rights organisations seemingly don't notice - or don't care - about their own baseless propoganda spouting offensive, vitriolic slander against the male half of the human race. The insinuation being made here is that the average 'John' is responsible for sustaining white female slavery, and for sexually abusing his own children or capitalising on the consequences of another 'John' having done so.

Slavery by any other name is still slavery, and unacceptable. But you are conflating two issues here: the morality or otherwise of (1) men (and occasionally women) paying for sexual services and (2) the conditions under which women and girls (and occasionally men and boys) provide those services.

The consumer of any service, sexual or otherwise, generally has little or no influence over the conditions in which workers provide that service. Moreover, as long as brothels remain illegal and underground, it is almost impossible to acquire that information. Therefore, I submit that the moral issue here does not arise at the point of demand in the commercial sex industry, but at the point of supply. I am sick and tired of being hectored by the conservative-feminist lobby, and its male apologistis, about my legitimate needs as a human male being off-limits.

There are, broadly, two strategies for tackling sex slavery. You could attack the demand side of the equation: go on yet another feminist rampage, demonising men and campaigning to get tougher on their use of commercial sex services. Or you could attack the supply side, for example with a Marshall Plan for eastern Europe to counter the appalling poverty which creates the conditions for sex slaves to be sourced from that region.

And, how about campaigning to legalise and legitimise the sex industry. Every legitimate industry has its share of cowboys and robber-barons; but they are far fewer in number than they would be if those industries were pushed underground. Ask any American historian about alcohol prohibition in the 1930s. Legalisation = ethical standards, worker's rights and public accountability.

All former campaigns against slavery were directed against the slavemasters and their political apologists. If anybody had suggested to Wilberforce that the mass of ordinary consumers should be condemned and persecuted for assisting slavery, he would have thought they were stark raving mad.

And it doesn't get much more bonkers than human rights organisations waging a war against half the human race in the name of the other half.

P.S. Why isn't there an International Men's Day?

Submitted by PhilipGiddings on Mon, 2006-07-03 19:21.

In my original message, I said: "Legalisation = ethical standards, workers' rights and public accountability". This was an error. They certainly do not automatically equate; but it is equally certain that, without legalisation, those objectives could not possibly be achieved.

In Talkback #15, Lisa says she researched legalisation in the Netherlands and discovered that workers' exploitation and illegal practices occur within the legal sector; and an illegal sector still exists. There is nothing remarkable about this: the same is true of every other industry. But nobody in their right mind would argue that any other legal industry should be criminalised in its entirety, in order to clamp down on the crooks and cowboys.

The success of legalisation depends on strong and active trade unions and adequate monitoring and policing of ethical rules and standards.

Research is an essential part of the monitoring process. I'll wager Lisa had a much harder time trying to get information about the illegal sector in the Netherlands than the legal sector.

And if we were being intellectually consistent with the principle of blaming the consumer, we could tell another heart-rending story. We could tell a story about an 8-year-old boy who works in a sweat shop in South-East Asia, making sex toys, mostly for the pleasure of western women. Then we could hold those women responsible for the exploitation of young children for a commercial sexual purpose.

But, don't expect intellectual consistency from the conservative-feminist orthodoxy; expect only double standards.

Submitted by Terry Hallman on Thu, 2006-03-09 01:59.


Just asking.


They needn't be exported to be in the whore business. There are a herd of hookers up and down Moskovsky Prospekt every night. Walking for exercise each evening, I see they're almost always out there except when temperature hits around minus 20. Four or five at one tram stop, three or four at a nearby all-night food store, two or three and the next all-night food store, and always exactly three between those two stores, just before Plosha Povstanya metro.


Obviously, they're working in their home country, but by choice or what? Are they bought and sold within Ukraine for $5000, or another amount? Who owns them? Or are they sole proprietors, or maybe a work cooperative or collective? Are they doing it because they want to, or because they're forced to?


Sex slavery is filthy business, and there is no excuse for Israel -- alleged according to themselves to be God's chosen people, but chosen for what is entirely unclear -- to be a party to this crime. At the same time, however, it will be instructive to find out how the same business operates within Ukraine, given the only apparent difference is that Ukraine's ladies of the night didn't have to be trafficked out of country to do the same thing.


I have only questions about this. Answers would be appreciated, and I can say for sure that these girls aren't saying anything beyond price information. All business; they'd make good entreprenuers, but I do understand the pay scale in Kharkiv stinks for most jobs. So maybe it's the best pay they can get, $20-$50 a day (night.)


Submitted by Terry Hallman on Sat, 2006-08-12 19:20.


Kharkiv militsia. Top echelon.

Mr. Lutsenko, I sincerely hope that you're paying attention. This is a filthy situation and, twice during this week, resulted in brutal sexual assaults (rape), kidnapping, and hovers on the brink of murder. At the hands of Kharkiv militsia.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 2006-03-13 08:45.

Mr. Hallman,

Try looking for your answers in Victor Malarek's book "The Natashas: The New Global Sex Trade." It's recently been translated into Ukrainian and released in Ukraine. The English version is available on Amazon.

Malarek has done, and continues to do, far more than merely pose questions or answer them. He risks his life to answer questions like yours and bring the answers to light.

If your questions are genuine, and you sincerely want answers, then after reading the book, roll up your sleeves.

There aren't many like Malarek out finding the answers. They sure could use some help.

Submitted by Terry Hallman on Mon, 2006-03-20 03:46.

I'm not logically inclined to read a book to get information on two dozen young women just outside my flat. I AM trying to help. I have to start with asking questions, even though they may seem frivolous or rhetorical. The fact is, nobody is talking about why these young women are out there, right here in front of my own nose.


A book is not going to give me specific answers about these specific girls around my flat.


In the meantime, with nobody that I can find able and willing to talk specifics, I can only speculate and aim at what I suspect is the main factor putting children on the streets selling their bodies for cash: poverty. Toward that end, I've just spent 38 months, tens of thousands of dollars in research and background, raised quite a bit of Hell, gone through a revolution, and suffered the creation of a $700 million development proposal that will demonstrably lift half a million Ukrainians out of poverty every year from now until there are no more; empty these God-forsaken "orphanages" (children's prisons) that produce thousands of children for the sex trade after they're kicked out at age 17 or so; and a communications infrastructure enabling modern-day Internet throughout Ukraine, despite what criminals in Ukraine's Communication Ministry and Ukrtelecom want to inflict on Ukraine. And the net cost of the project, within 7 years, is: zero. It pays for itself, and it's been one hell of a chore to assemble it so as to prove in advance it will work. Aside from that, I've done nothing.


And I'm preparing to raise more Hell to get funding approved, if common sense and integrity are still lacking in Ukraine. Hopefully it will undermine the root causes that put these kids on the street, or working by the hour in "banya entertainment."


I hope this clarifies things a bit.


Submitted by PhilipGiddings on Fri, 2006-06-30 14:45.

Hi Terry! Been distracted for a while by domestic issues and working long hours this summer, though I've tried to keep abreast of the news in Ukraine. Only just stumbled on your articles, though, including the one about the conditions in the orphanages. There must be a half-decent investigative journalist somewhere (Ukrainska Pravda, Kyiv Post?) who will expose this, as the first step towards getting something done about it.

Slavery by any other name is still slavery, and unacceptable. You put your finger on poverty as the root of all these evils. But I think Arik Diament is conflating two issues here: (1) the morality or otherwise of men (and women) paying for sexual services and (2) the conditions under which women and girls (and men and boys) provide those services.

Let's begin with a fundamental question. Why do men want sex with women in the first place? Can the answer to that question be reduced to a mere physical sensation (lust)? I say, no it can't, since that can be achieved without any assistance from anybody else. There is a wide range of sex toys on the market and no woman can perform at 100 vibrations per second.

Therefore, something else is needed to explain why a man seeks out a real woman made of flesh and blood, as opposed to an inflatable one; and that something else is all about intangibles: intimacy, affection, the chance to feel human again; maybe the cultural imperative that a man is supposed to be incomplete, not a man, or missing out on something, without a woman. Or maybe it boils down to some pseudo-Freudian theory about the regressive drive to re-enter the womb and the therapeutic value of doing so?

Should we be ashamed of possessing these quintessentially human needs, or of paying to have them met if there is no opportunity to do so for free? Hell, we should not. Indeed, why should not those needs count as human rights, too?

That leads immediately to another question: should our legitimate needs be met through the abuse or unacceptable exploitation of another human being? No, of course not. But that is a completely separate question. The consumer of any service, sexual or otherwise, generally has little or no influence over the conditions in which workers provide that service. Therefore, I submit that the moral issue here does not arise at the point of demand in the commercial sex industry, but at the point of supply. I am sick and tired of being hectored by the conservative-feminist lobby, and its male apologistis, about my legitimate needs as a human male being off-limits.

Women in general don't have this problem: though some of them pay for sex, too, most can have sex all day if they want to, and even get paid into the bargain. The snag for them is, the sex would not be satisfactory most of the time; but at least they have free access to the intimacy and all the other intangible benefits, on tap and on demand. Relatively few women will sleep alone in their beds this very night, unless they choose to. For an unattached male, the cost of avoiding that outcome in the UK (for example) is probably somewhere around 1000 for an overnight stay. That's the difference.

Of course, that is no advantage for the women who are held in sexual slavery. There are, broadly, two strategies for tackling it. You could attack the demand side of the equation: go on yet another feminist rampage, demonising men and campaigning to get tougher on their use of commercial sex services. Or you could attack the supply side, with a commitment to wage war on poverty, and the feminisation of poverty, in Europe.

See, I am trying to approach this with intellectual consistency and somewhat in the manner of a trade unionist: there is no such thing as an inherently evil industry, only bad employers who oppress their workers within a given industry. When you attack the consumers, you are, broadly, attacking the working class (the soft target) rather than the capitalist class (the hard target).

Issues such as, the economic and social development of poor countries in Europe, are fundamental to the supply side of this equation. Brussels is refusing significant assistance for Ukraine's progress towards EU membership, on the grounds that there is a limit to the number of new countries the EU can contain. Yet, Montenegro is already being fast-tracked into the EU ahead of Ukraine. To the extent that public-investment assistance for countries like Ukraine, including the means to plug the drain of resources through corruption, is not forthcoming, the social problems of sex slavery and death-camp orphanages will not be solved; or will take longer to solve than the lifetimes of the women and children we are trying to liberate from those conditions.

Anti-poverty campaigners should counter Brussels' anti-EU expansion logic with the fact that we can't afford NOT to do it. The price of the status quo is far higher for all of us, not just the Svetlanas of this world. I recall reading an article by Yulia Tymoshenko in which she argues that poverty is the most expensive economic policy to operate. Any similarity between her and Margaret Thatcher is, at that point, stopped dead in its tracks. Thatcher operated poverty and mass unemployment as deliberate tools of economic policy: they were a "price well worth paying", said her Chancellor, Norman Lamont. A price is always well worth paying when it's paid by somebody else.

Ultimately, however, the poverty and slavery that goes around, comes around in the form of billions of Euros - much of which could otherwise be collected in taxes from legitimate businesses - being lost to organised crime and the cost of policing it; and the costs of the consequences of that, such as, illegal immigrants and asylum seekers being fed, housed / imprisoned and deported on aeroplanes. (The cost of keeping one person on State benefits or in jail in the UK is 20,000-30,000 a year; then there are huge legal fees involved in court proceedings, interpreters' fees, and so on.)

We need to go out and argue the case for a Marshall Plan for Eastern Europe, rather than wage a witch hunt against the male half of the population. And, how about campaigning to legalise and legitimise the sex industry. Every legitimate industry has its share of cowboys and robber-barons; but they are far fewer in number than they would be if those industries were pushed underground. Ask any American historian about alcohol prohibition in the 1930s. The problem is the pimps, not the punters. Therefore, ease off the blokes and give the geezers a hard time, instead.

Submitted by Terry Hallman on Sat, 2006-07-01 12:36.

has just been updated, Phil. Your timing is superb. I'm studying your above message at the moment, now that the hard part's been updated. (Only Kafka could dream it up, if only it were fiction....)